ESSENCE OF OPENNESS BETWEEN LOVERS





Let us talk about the little thing that makes it all beautiful. The little thing that brings rest of mind in relationship. It's the beginning of everything good and bad in every relationship. If it's not in a relationship it would all go bad and if it's in a relationship everything would be easy for the two people involved. What's this little thing I've been talking about? It is called OPENNESS. 

Openness is a vita organ which breathes oxygen into a good relationship. It's the lifeline of relationship. No relationship can survive or be filled with joy if there's no openness between the two people in involved. Among the things openness does to a relationship are as follows:



1. OPENNESS BRINGS TRUST IN RELATIONSHIP.

When lovers are open to themselves there'd be no room for doubt. Doubt is a toxic element which can poison any joy that might exist between lovers, absence of trust in relationship is why there's no commitment among lovers. When one is not open to the other doubt creeps in and therefore leads to separation or divorce. Where there's openness there's less or no scrutiny of behaviour or movement of one another by the couple. Therefor let openness build trust between you and your lover.

2. OPENNESS BREEDS HONESTY.

There's no openness if there's no honesty. Openness means telling it as it is without withholding facts. If one is open there won't be a need for lying about where one is going. Lack of openness is why people lie to themselves about there whereabouts.  Lack of openness is why a man or woman can't inform his or her partner about the plans she's making which in turn makes the other feel not being carried along or being part of the relationship. When lovers are open with themselves they tell the truth without being forced to do so. When partners are open to one another they see themselves as one. A situation where partners tell themselves the truth at all time would always make them have togetherness in their love life. Be open to your partner to create honesty.



3. OPENNESS CREATES ROOM FOR COMMUNICATION.

When couple are open with themselves it gives room for them to communicate in a way where both of them would enjoy their love. Relationship can't blossom if there's no communication between the lovers involved, and this  is a result of lack of openness between the two people involved. When people are open there'd be willingness to solve any problem that might arise in their love life through communication between them. Make sure there's openness between you and your partner and create room for open communication.

4. OPENNESS MAKES PEOPLE FEEL LOVED.

'People hardly tell the truth about their lives to people they don't love and can't trust'. This is a fact that everyone knows (including you). When you're open with your partner and you build room for trust your partner would truly feel loved by you and this would make your partner to love you in return. People don't love someone they can't trust, and people don't trust somebody they can't love. Be open with your partner and also encourage your partner to be open to you if you want to enjoy your relationship. The existence of openness in your lives will make both of you feel loved.



5. OPENNESS CREATES PEACE OF MIND IN RELATIONSHIP.

A man or woman whose partner lives like an open book won't have any reason to worry him or herself. Even when both are not together the trust will always be there. If you want to have peace in your relationship try and encourage living in openness with your partner. Tell him/her what you intend to do, tell your partner the real place you're going anytime you're going out, tell your partner your plans and the reasons for the plans. TELL YOUR PARTNER EVERYTHING AND YOU WON'T HAVE A REASON TO WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING.

NOTE: PLEASE ENCOURAGE YOUR PARTNER TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WHERE THERE'S NO SECRET AND I PROMISE YOU THAT BOTH OF YOU ARE GOING TO ENJOY IT.

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