EFFECTS YOUR DRESSING HAS ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP

When it comes to play we should play, but when it comes to the truth we should tell it like it is.

I have never seen something people take for granted like dressing well. Just like it matters to dress well in the corporate world to attract the right opportunity is the the same when it comes to relationship.

As odd as it sounds it's a proven experiment I have conducted. People tend to judge what one could turn out to be just by the way they dress. If you still don't understand me let me make it simple for you.

FOR WOMEN:

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REAL MEN DON'T LIKE THEIR WOMEN TO DRESS IN A WAY WHERE OTHER MEN COULD IMAGINE WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH HER.


Yes you heard me right, that's true. when it comes to choosing a woman to settle down with men have preference.  A player won't care what you wear or how you wear it when he needs somebody to toy with, but when he wants to settle down, he can never settle for someone who shares the view of her cleavage with everyone to see. Please do not get me wrong by thinking I'm judging or condemning anyone,  you could find a man even if you dress that way but how do you expect a man who keeps his pe**** (genital) in his pants and wants to live for his woman alone not to worry about it if his woman shows her cleavage for all to see? Think about that for a minute. Real men are often drawn to making women who dress smartly their wives instead of choosing ones who dress slutty. EVERY KING PREFERS HIS GIFT BEING WRAPPED BEFORE YOU HAND IT OVER TO HIM AND NOT NAKED. If the kind of man you want in life is a king and you want him to see you as a gift from God instead seeing you as a toy to play with you need to start preserving your body. A man is jealous in nature just like women are; he doesn't want another man to see the nakedness of his wife. I know there are some men who want to dress their ladies as prostitutes but when you see such man you should know he is not the right person who can settle down with one woman. Such man would only play with your body for as long as the game can last. Begin to dress well if you want to attract the right man. DRESS TO HAVE A MAN WHO WILL TAKE YOU IN ( make you his wife), and NOT FOR A MAN WHO WILL TAKE YOU OUT( use your body like a prostitute and dump you). 

When you're dressing it should be to look good, nice, beautiful, RESPECTFUL and not slutty. Let your way of dressing command respect for you. (THERE'S ONE TRUE THING I KNOW ABOUT MEN, 'THEY ALWAYS ADDRESS A LADY THE WAY THE LADY DRESSES UP HERSELF).


FOR MEN:



YOU CAN SAG YOUR TROUSERS AND EXPECT A LADY TO SEE YOU AS A MAN. NO!  SAGGING IS FOR THE BOYS.


Here's a truth every man should know about : when it comes to dressing there's one thing that matters to a woman, a woman wants you to dress in a way she can be proud of being seeing with you in public and not the other way round. GOOD SENSE OF DRESSING IS ALWAYS A TURN ON FOR EVERY LADY. 

You can't dress up and SAG your pants hoping a woman is going to like it. Haven't you wondered why ladies like it so much when a man dresses well? It's because it says so much about the class of people the man belongs to. Sagging is the way of prison. Why they sag in the prison is because they do not not allow them to use belt in order not to turn it to a weapon of fight among the inmates. 

 When you sag your pants women feel uncomfortable with that and it can affect your relationship with her. It can affect the way she perceives you and treat you, do you want to be treated as a man or as a boy? think about that. A man might have been in prison before but it doesn't mean he should continue to live outside the wall with his woman as if he is still in the prison. 

Take control of your dressing and don't let your dressing take control of you. If you want to be a respectable man then dress like one. You can't be showing off your butt in public while expecting your woman to feel good about it. IF YOU SAW YOUR WOMAN SHOWING OFF HER BUTT IN PUBLIC DUE TO INDECENT DRESSING WOULD YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT? That's something for you to ponder on!

Dressing well is necessary if you want a relationship where respect is the order of the day. You can't dress like a boy and expect a woman to see you like a man, and as a woman you can't dress like a prostitute and expect to have a faithful man put you in his home. The reasons you might have been complaining about your relationship could be because you attracted the wrong man into your love life due to the way you dressed when you were looking for somebody to settle down with. 'DRESSING SLUTTY IS NOT THE SAME AS DRESSING ATTRACTIVELY'. 

THINK ABOUT THAT FOR A SECOND AND LET THE WAY YOU DRESS BEGIN TO SHOW THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE ADDRESSED.

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