MISTAKE SOME LADIES MAKE IN RELATIONSHIP

Good Morning to you all the angels of God. A beautiful day it has been for you I believe.

So we were discussing something at the basketball court today when a lady suddenly remembered what happened to a neighbour of her"s yesterday. The said neighbour had been in a relationship with a man who didn't love her despite all she did, yet she chose to stay with him thinking to give him a lot of sex might change his mind and make him love her like she deserves. Her patience, however, reached the breaking point yesterday when she heard the guy she was dating is about to get married to someone else.

According to the account of this our friend, her behaviour is now somehow erratic and she's being watched by her family members since when she attempted to commit suicide. There I began feeling the pain of this lady even though I don't know her. I have never met her before nor do I know her relative.

Thinking of how much it would have meant to her in life if this man had truly loved her and decided to spend the rest of his life with her? Suddenly this our lady friend asked me: How come "some men" behave like that? I took a very deep breath before I answered her, looked at her while I shook my head in total disbelief and regret of what some men have done to the womenfolks her neighbour. Then I gave her the answered she longed to hear from me, the same thing I have told many ladies over and over again: the mistake so many people have been making for so long and has never stopped. I said the truth is:

 "DON'T FEED A MAN WITH SEX BECAUSE YOU WANT HIM TO LOVE YOU. SEX CAN'T MAKE A MAN LOVE YOU: IF HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU NATURALLY FROM HIS HEART, HE CAN NEVER LOVE YOU. "

Here is a great gift some ladies give to men who don't deserve them. What they don't know is that "sex is not just an act": it's an exchange of soul between two people who have decided to become one for life. you can't tie yourself to someone who doesn't want to be tied to you hoping you'd have peace or happiness in such relationship. No! That's hope against hope.

SEX WON'T MAKE A MAN LOVE YOU! A MAN WHO LOVES YOU WILL WAIT UNTIL YOU'RE READY FOR IT WITHOUT PESTERING YOU FOR SEX. "IF A MAN NATURALLY LOVES YOU HE WOULD STAY AND WORK THINGS OUT WITH YOU ANY TIME YOU HAVE CHALLENGES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. BUT IF HE'S STILL HANGING AROUND BECAUSE OF SEX YOU SERVE HIM YOU CAN BE SURE THAT HE'S A TIME BOMB WAITING TO EXPLODE BECAUSE WHEN HE IS TIRED OF THE SEX HE WOULD HAVE NO OPTION THAN TO HIT THE EXIT POINT OF YOUR LIFE".

Why causing yourself sorrow when you can be patient to meet some who truly deserves you and would bring joy to your life? why some ladies actually settle for what they don't deserve it because of lack of patience. Sometimes the desperation is borne out of insecurity or societal pressure. You are beautiful and amazing so believe in yourself. And if it's because of societal or peer pressure remember they won't shed a tear when your heart is broken.

When a heart is broken one feels like giving up, living life of  a prisoner who is convicted of love.when you know it's over is like shining in the dark, trying to find your way back to the start, when a heart is broken. "These words here are those of a broken heart, please i don't want them to be for you and they will never be for you by God's grace" WHEN YOU THINK YOU CAN MAKE A MAN WHO DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU TO LOVE YOU BY GIVING HIM SEX, MY SISTER YOU'RE NOT IN LOVE BUT YOU'RE IN LUST".

The question is: do you want to be used and dumped or you want to be treasured and kept?

Warning: DON'T. DONT' AND DON'T try to trap a man with sex. If he doesn't love you it means he is not your own. If he is your own he will surely love you with no price attached. PLEASE DON'T MAKE THIS MISTAKE. 

May God give you all happiness in your love life in Jesus name. I love you all and thank you for always keeping in touch with me.

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